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Together, again

January 28th 2011 00:34
elderly love

What a difference a lifetime makes.

When Leslie Harper and Elsie Dunn married in Hull, northern England, in 1941, World War II was raging and hope for a better future was one of the few luxuries they had.

They didn’t get it. The war ended, but it seemed to have taken romance with it. They had a daughter, Pauline, but the relationship struggled. Elsie said the war had changed Leslie. Things got increasingly hostile, and they divorced in 1954.


So bitter was the separation that Elsie burned her wedding photos and vowed that she never wanted to see Leslie, or have any contact, again.

Leslie and Elsie both married again in the 1960s, and both marriages lasted a long time. Elsie’s second husband died in 2002; Leslie’s second wife died in 2004.

Alone again, Leslie looked back over his life, including the photos from his first wedding which he had always kept. He had kept everything that reminded him of Elsie. Leslie felt there was something he had to do.

Elsie had so thoroughly cut him off all those years ago that he didn’t have any contact details for her. But their daughter, Pauline, now 65, did. Leslie asked Pauline for a phone number.

Leslie, now 93, rang Elsie, now 90, and they agreed to meet. They got on, Elsie said, like they had never been apart. It was the old Leslie, the lad she had met and loved before the war changed him. They laughed again. They rediscovered the romance. They loved again.


So they got married again.

Pauline gave her mother away, to her father. “Everybody was really happy for them,” said Pauline. “They're meant to be together.”
mirror.co.uk

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First-date agony

September 27th 2010 00:58
holding hands

Do you agonise over a first date? Which one of the following describes you most:

It's impossible not to agonise over a first date. You get just one chance to impress. What if you blow it!

There is no need to be nervous about a first date. You just act yourself, hope the other person does the same, and see if there's an attraction.

Remind me again - what's a date?


If you chose number one, you're under 40. If you chose number two, you're middle-aged. If you chose number three, you've long ago worked out that agonising over anything is a waste of energy.

Our little poll is in response to a recent media feature story quoting a big poll about first dates. The responses were all about agony and self-doubt and fear and double-guessing. That a first date must be nerve-wracking was taken for granted and no contrary possibility was so much as hinted at.

Of course, the survey was of 20- and 30-somethings, and the publication was aimed at that demographic.

We would like to break some news to those age groups: be yourself and treat a first date as a first step. If you keep your eye on the start line and stop worrying about the finish line, you'll have things in perspective.

You might even relax and enjoy yourself.

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